do the damn thing!

so today, i was talking to my best advice giver about something that was bothering me, and that person said, "you need to just do the damn thing & not complain about it." and i thought to myself, you are absolutely right! more often than not, i complain about my problems, and then leave it as that. as if just verbalizing it will make it go away. well i realize that, NUH UH, that problem is most definitely not going away. i can push it aside all i want, but it will still be there in the back of my head. if i want something changed, i need to take action and DO THE DAMN THING. my life is in my hands, so if i want something done i need to go on & do it, instead of waiting for things to happen. so, this is the philosophy i will now live by. :)